删除旧

delete from a  using mix_crm_contact   as a,mix_crm_contact  as b where a.id<b.id and a.`telphone_num` = b.`telphone_num`

删除新

delete from a  using mix_crm_contact   as a,mix_crm_contact  as b where a.id>b.id and a.`telphone_num` = b.`telphone_num`